The lessons of life

I was determined to be wise,but it was beyond me.How can anyone discover what life means.it is too deep for us,too hard to understand.But i threw myself into knowledge and study.i was determined to find wisdom and this answers to my questions.

I have come to realise that in this world,fast runners do not always win the races and the brave do not always earn a living;intelligent people donot always get rich and capable people do not always rise to high positions.

Filled with nostalgia for my secondary school days,a particular clique called to mind.They were the most brilliant in the class,always coming out tops.they go by the name "the young professionals".Every other student envied them.They were used as reference points by teachers and parents.Each was called name based on the profession he intend to practice,such as the doctor,the pharmacist,the lawyer,etc.Egoistically,they lord it over others.They were confident of making it big in life,because they were intelligent.But years later,i took time to ponder on what later became of the intelligent young professionals.To my chagrin,i discovered that,it was only a few of them that were able to take their studies beyond secondary school.The rest were not financially capable.All the hopes of becoming the highly placed in society,dashed.Today,many of them are day-paid labourers;okada(motorcycle)riders;bus conductors;unemployed:roaming the streets looking for jobs that
are never found.Yet,they are talented.They have the potential to become world-class entrepreneurs.Though they are full of invention-ideas for the good of all mankind,but since they were born into penury:without financial support,those incredible ideas inside of them cannot be put into use simply because,they lack the means of activating the ideas.The illiterate is like crude oil.it cannot serve its purpose unless it has been refined.An unrefined man,a man without much education,cannot realize his full potential.

Life taught me that no one thinks of the poor as wise or pays any attention to what he says.The poor live among a people,but he is without identity:he is treated with no honour even among his own.He is highly valued only during election process when he assumes a prominence he hardly derseves.He is called to become part of the the activities that intended to achieve the victory of the politician at the polls.Gifts are showered on the poor just to lure him into working assiduously towards the success of the plitician.On that scorching hot day,the poor joins a queue before the ballot box to exercise his franchise.At the end,the politician wins while the poor loses.The politian is sworn-in into an office with all the paraphernalia of power while the poor go with an avalanche of empty promises:still wallowing in utter misery.Nothing has been done to alleviate his poverty.Politicians as usual,promise the earth before an election,but things are different
afterwards.

Life is never fair.i was feeling utterly desolate:lonely and unhappy,until a friend of mine,a Sierra leonean,narrated to me how the rebels raped his only sister to death;hacked his parents to death and finally set their house ablaze,before his own very eyes.He was virtually left with nothing:no people to call his,no place to lay his head,no destiny,no hope.Dejected indeed,he fled to Liberia only to be caught up in another rebel war few months later.Subsequently he moved down to Guinea before settling in Ghana.Poor boy,he lives alone in a foreign land while the warlords who inflicted the pains on him are today in the corridors of power in Sierra leone,making decisions and munching the wealth of the land they once ravaged.What a world! some people have power,others have to suffer under them.

I was taught that to every success,there is a sacrifice.And that there is no success without suffering.But why is it that some people are suffering without becoming successful while others are successful without suffering? With little or no effort,this man gets amazing result,but the other man will toil for years,exert a big effort,yet failure;frustration;poverty stares him on the face.sometimes the righteous get the punishment of the wicked and the wicked get the reward of the righteous.some people sow while others reap.It is not possible to get something for nothing.There is no such thing as a free lunch.There must be a sowing before a reaping.So everything that is been enjoyed today,must have been sown in the time past.

Today,millions of South Africans are free,but the seed of freedom was sown by Nelson Mandela and few other anti-apartheid activists who spent years languishing behind bars.Nigerian politicians have busied themselvces with the task of siphoning off the billions committed in their care into their own foreign bank accounts,but can any of them ask the pro-democracy activists on their experiences in prison on convictions for "crimes" that included sabotage committed while superheading the struggle against military dictatorship.

Yes,many talents without development and empowerment amounts to nothingness.it is like a new born baby that has nobody to look after him, will eventually die.A vision without provision is frustration.But come to think about it,i believe that a vsion with a genuine cause can only be delayed.certainly,it will come to pass.Consider the words of Dr Martin Luther King Jr,four decades ago:"i have a dream this afternoon that the brotherhood of man will become a reality..with this faith,we will be able to achieve that new day when all of God's children,blackmen and whitemen,Jews and Gentiles,Protestants and Catholics will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old spiritual,'free at last,free at last.Thank God Almighty we are free at last'".Today,this dream has come to fulfilment in its entirety.Hilary Clinton,a woman and Barrack Obama,a blackman of African lineage, have risen to become the political giants in today's America.Americans have looked
beyond race and sex,to choose the most qualified.

What is the essence of life? why are we on this planet called earth? Do God exist,if yes,why the wide spread human sufferings?.Well,i hope the earth didn't just happen.It was created by an infinitely intelligent Being beyound our human understanding and this creator established certain natural laws that put order into all things.if i plan my life to function within the boundaries of these natural laws,i can achieve happinesss and success in life.and if i live outside these natural laws,i will never enjoy the inner peace,riches,enlightenment,and physical well-being for which i am searching.it is as amazing and simple as that.you may avoid the laws of man but there are greater laws that cannot be broken.

Mankind faces great problems today because people have become so self-sufficient that they some times forget there is a God.They forget that there is an omni-present power that is bigger and more powerful than you and i.Troubles of life may abound,but they come to make us better and not to destroy us.Knowing that God is my source and,that my destiny rests in His hands,i am not perplexed.I am confident that in due course,the world shall celebrate me.

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